While life may seem chaotic, there is a set order running and governing what is in existence. This arrangement is extraordinarily sensitive to the out loud expression or even the silent articulation of never.
The commitment to never forces you to stand face-to-face in opposition with the engine of existence. It is in this face-off that strange things start to happen. Suddenly, Murphy’s Law go into effect and everything that was never supposed to happen unfolds at your feet with you standing in the midst of it dazed and confused.
To put never into practice is to exert an imaginary force, one that tries to impose sameness and uniformity across all situations and ideas. This goes against the core grain of existence, as the premise of its own continuation is built on constant and relentless change.
Why? The foundation of existence is based on its inclination to create, to expand its horizon and to give birth to new possibilities. So long as this is its mode of being, it cannot obey your rules of never. Your never demands a halt to its very process. It commends it to become static, predictable, unyielding and resistant to change. Your never is an attempt to annihilate it.
It has created nature through its principles of change. This is the exact method it used to give rise to the very possibility that is you. Nature demands flexibility and you are part of this nature. Go with the grain of your disposition; it is this that defines the depth of your commitment, not your pledge to never.
The only way to get something close to a ‘never’ is to create and to give rise to something new, perhaps a new possibility to replace what you prefer to avoid experiencing again. Be the engine of change and creation if you want to steer clear of becoming a player in the never-ending riddle of never.
In spite of its hardships, when this riddle is in effect, it is merely a process of moving you from the static mode to a position of growth and wonder. This is its way of expanding your realm of possibility by showing you, you are much greater than the notion of never, which is essentially nothingness.
